How Hot is Your Relationship? Twin Flame versus Soul Mate Status

There is hot and there’s fire, intense, burning-the-house-down hot when it comes to unforgettable relationships. Here is how to tell the difference between a toxic-flame, a soul-mate, and a twin-flame connections.

Soul-mate connections are usually “the ones” that last a life-time. These relationships are generally committed, married, long-lasting loves and friendships that aren’t always perfect but they work.

There is a sense of love, romance and connection that can be built upon, nurtured and developed together over time. Soul mates often feel they’ve met their match, usually in a positive way keeping in mind the foundations are solid from the start.

Karmic and plutonic relationships feel steamy and very connected but in a soul-sucking manner. These are more toxic partners (energy vampires) that lead you away from your purpose here on Earth. These people bring lessons, usually harsh and negative. Once learned, the connections are broken.

Meeting a twin-flame signifies a major change in your life. You may call it a spark, a knowing – like looking in a mirror. This connection reflects something deep within yourself. The reflection shows the changes needed to complete your higher mission here. It’s a spiritual awakening and the underlying purpose is positive, accelerating growth and service to others.

It feels profoundly different than most connections, typically like you have known each other for lifetimes.

Extinguishing any of these “flames” can be as difficult, intense and life-changing as the beginning of the spark. But a twin-flame connection is meant to be a catalyst in life for individual, spiritual growth.

These connections are unforgettable yet not always romantic. In fact, twin-flames can exist in friendships, families, partnerships in work, teachers, and random meetings that feel quite reflective of yourself – a mirror image.

You know when you meet that you’ve known each other before. You share an ancestral past, childhood traumas, and multiple, uncanny similarities. Many say it is as if you’re meeting yourself. There is a desire to grow, and to priotize growth over being in a relationship.

It is the spiritual growth that becomes the focus. Twin-flame influences the need to do inner work and evolve the relationship with the self to become more whole.

Spiritual leaders and some psychologists recognize the twin-flame connection as one that involves two people who share the same soul that split. Others theorize that each soul is whole, meeting another you’ve contracted with for a higher purpose for humanity.

Once these twin flames meet, an intense, magnetic attraction and connection is built. It can feel fiery and combative. The goal is to be individually whole, healthfully binding the masculine and feminie sides of one’s self. The change that occurs is hard but ultimately healing and inspiring in positive ways.

Often these connections reflect generational traumas that require deep love, thought and healing overall. Not everyone will experience this type of twin-flame meeting. Each person must have achieved a high-level of growth to recognize the other.

It is fair to say that it may take years, even decades, of internal growth to realize who really came in as a toxic, soul or twin-flame and why. The lessons can be some of the most difficult to endure. It is extremely important to note the danger in confusing any of these concepts to justify codepent and abusive behaviors in relationships.

The loss of any type is extremely hard and the grief can be quite debilitating. It is critical to seek advice and support in order to remain grounded, rooted and ready to grow from the lessons reflected to you and within you. In time, you will be whole, able to let go and better for having let the guidance lead you. This is the goal.

Love yourself wholly in order to love another.

Comparing astrological birth charts is a solid way to research the basis of these connections. Touch base if you’d like assistance with your chart.

Sources include my life experiences where my twin flame died as I grew whole. Other information obtained from,, Souls On Fire TV, YouTube.

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